Saguru, I have a daughter, as a mother, what is my responsibility? I do not understand What kind of child do you have? girl Only your neighbors should go see Is your child a girl or a boy? You never see if he is a man or a woman. This is the first thing The boy next door will see this is a girl It does not matter You shouldnt think Is this a boy or a girl? This is a child. And the best thing you can do for your child is If you think your way is everything Naturally, you will want them to become like you This is a step backward for the next generation. What should the next generation look like? More than you can imagine That’s what they should have If you go to shape them How would you shape it? like you? Maybe your parents know better than you how to shape So you may not be as good as your parents. Because it is very likely that your mother is father At least your mother, maybe she is full-time shaping you You are only part-time We can imagine what you will do So don’t try to shape them a child only needs A stable and pleasant environment for growth To create a joy I am the first to say joy. First of all, there is joy, there is love, do you understand? Otherwise its just stupid love No joy and happiness After a while, it will make people feel pain First of all, there must be a joyful atmosphere. If you have the ability to maintain this atmosphere You can add your love a little bit. Children will need your love and attention Until they are five, six or seven years old Then they want to have their own space They want to be their own This is a good thing So your only job is Put them in a very happy and loving incubator Of course there will be people outside who will try to influence them in other ways. Those effects are always there You should not completely isolate them from those things. Because one day they have to go out But your task is not to shape them Your child should not become They should not be like you They should exceed you Become better than you, don’t you? What do you think is better? They must make more money than you They have to have bigger cars Bigger house This is unfortunate If you are so happy, they should be happier than you. If you are so smart, they should be smarter than you. If you are so stable, they must also be smoother than you. right? Ok? If your life is so rich, their lives should be richer. The richness of your childs life or the richness of your life lies in Never rely on what you have The promotion of your life should never depend on what you have accumulated. Please understand this with your child. Who are you, who are you? What you have is only useful to us to a certain extent. We will have all those things We can use and enjoy those things. But never try to improve your life through them. Never try to improve who you are through the clothes you wear. Where do you live by where you live? These things are useful You use them to the extreme, no problem But they should not be used to improve who you are. Who are you who should happen from within you? If your child grows up like this No matter what he or she grows, They don’t need to be like you Once you don’t have this problem, allow them not like you You will see How free and happy it is to raise your child Your only struggle is that they are not like you. right? Your struggle with your children every day is here. They didn’t look like you How happy I am..
